→ How to Unclench: A new essay, five years in the making


Roughly a year ago I shared this post on X about unclenching that went viral and was seen by 1.8 million people.

So it seemed like there was something here that was resonating.

The more that I dug into the concept of 'unclenching' the more that it seemed to unify many disparate threads: from regulation tools, to deep meditation techniques and also seemed less abstract than talking about 'nervous system work'.

So after many months of wrestling with the writing process, and receiving generous feedback from dozens of friends the essay is finally live.

This is the first long-form piece that I've published in a long time—it's an interactive essay that attempts to condense all that I've learned from researching the literature, teaching 1600+ students and running my own experiments over the past five years.

→ Read the full essay at howtounclench.com

p.s. I'd love to hear your unclenching-related thoughts or questions, if you use X/twitter please join the conversation here.

Jonny Miller

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